This topic is all about the idea of naming your stoma, which is a common practice among ostomates. The original poster shares their own stoma's name, "Pooey Vuitton," and wonders if others have named theirs and how it might have affected their feelings toward it.

Here are some insights and advice from the discussion:

1. Naming as a Coping Tool:
- Many people find that giving their stoma a name, like Frankie, Stella, Rosie, or even something humorous like Bronx Cheer, helps them feel more connected and makes care easier. It can also bring a sense of humor or affection to the situation.
- Some choose not to name their stoma, finding acceptance in other ways.

2. Psychological Benefits:
- Naming can help create emotional distance during frustrating times or increase compassion, as one member felt when they named theirs "Baby Stoma."
- Humor, with names like "Pooey Vuitton" or "PITA," can help reduce embarrassment and make the stoma a more approachable topic.

3. Practical Communication:
- A code name for the stoma can help communicate with family or friends about stoma-related needs without going into detail. It can also lead to discovering local support from other ostomates.

4. Resilience Against Negativity:
- Embracing and openly displaying the stoma helped one person overcome negative comments from hospital staff, highlighting the importance of quick acceptance and a fighting spirit.

5. Public Situations:
- A discreet nickname can make it easier to discuss stoma-related issues, like leaks or emptying, when out in public.

6. No Universal Rule:
- Whether or not to name a stoma is a personal choice. The key is to find an approach—be it naming, humor, or straightforward acceptance—that best supports your mental well-being.