This topic is about a woman from Australia who has been through a lot with her health. After dealing with ulcerative Crohn’s disease for 18 years, she had her eighth and final surgery in May 2008, which resulted in a permanent ileostomy. This was after facing several complications, including a rectal fistula, painful red lumps on her legs, and multiple unsuccessful surgeries to reverse the condition. Now, five months after her surgery, she is still dealing with a leaking rectal wound because Crohn’s is slowing down the healing process. Usually a cheerful person, she is now experiencing severe mood swings over small issues. Her doctor and nutritionist have suggested she try counselling, and she is curious if others have found it helpful.

Here are some pieces of advice and insights that might be helpful:

1. Experiencing mood swings and depression after such a significant surgery is common. Seeking professional help is a normal and reasonable step to take.

2. Counselling can be very beneficial, but it’s important to find a counsellor who is comfortable discussing issues related to having an ostomy. It might take trying a few different counsellors to find the right one.

3. Antidepressants can be a helpful tool in managing mood swings. There is no shame in using medication to help balance your mood.

4. Connecting with others who have ostomies can be uplifting and provide a level of understanding that professionals might not offer. Local support groups and online forums can be great resources.

5. Focus on taking small, manageable steps. Once medication and support are in place, your outlook and mood might improve more quickly than you expect.