This topic is all about the idea of naming your stoma. Some people find it helpful to give their stoma a name, while others prefer not to. Here are some thoughts and tips shared by people who have been through this experience:

- Naming your stoma can be a fun way to cope. Many people find that giving their stoma a playful or affectionate name helps them and their families laugh, explain noises, and accept the stoma more easily. Names like Alien, Louise, Tina “Tummy Bum,” Stanley, or even calling it a “rose-bud” have been used.

- There are no rules when it comes to naming. Some people choose not to name their stoma at all, even after many years, because they feel it’s just a part of their body and doesn’t need a separate identity.

- Choosing a gender for the name is a personal decision. Some people like gender-neutral names such as “Stomy” or “Spuey.” Others might choose a name of the opposite sex for humor or as an inside joke. Some feel that a male name wouldn’t suit a biologically female body.

- Involving kids and handling public situations can be easier with a name. Letting children pick a name or blaming unexpected sounds on the stoma’s name can reduce embarrassment and make conversations simpler.

- Be prepared for unpredictable behavior. Many people have stories about their stoma acting up during bag changes or in public. Using humor, and sometimes even yelling at the stoma, can help when dealing with leaks or unexpected noises.

- If you have more than one stoma, naming is still optional. One person with two stomas mentioned they haven’t named either, showing that it’s entirely up to you whether you want to name your stoma or not.