Topic Explanation
The discussion centers around dealing with a hernia after ileostomy surgery. The original poster, a 64-year-old woman with COPD, underwent ileostomy surgery and later discovered she had a large hernia. Due to her severe COPD, further surgery is not an option, and she is seeking advice from others who have experienced similar situations.

Advice and Insights
1. Surgery Considerations:
- Some individuals have undergone surgery for parastomal hernias, often in conjunction with other necessary surgeries. However, the decision to operate should be carefully considered, especially if there are significant health risks involved.

2. Living with a Hernia:
- Many people choose to live with their hernias, especially if surgery poses high risks or if the hernia is not causing severe discomfort.
- Hernias can vary in size, and some individuals have lived with them for many years without significant issues.

3. Managing Discomfort:
- Some people experience discomfort from their hernias, while others do not find them particularly bothersome.
- Adjusting clothing to accommodate the hernia can help manage its visibility and any associated discomfort.

4. Surgery Outcomes:
- There is a belief that hernia surgeries may not be highly successful in the long term, leading some to delay surgery as long as possible to maximize the period of relief post-surgery.

5. Alternative Health Approaches:
- While not directly related to hernia management, some individuals have explored alternative treatments for related health issues, such as COPD, with varying degrees of success.