This topic is about finding support and practical advice for LGBTQ individuals who have an ileostomy and are navigating intimacy. Here are some helpful tips and insights shared by others:

1. Managing output during intimate moments:
- If your pouch starts to fill, you can pause to empty it and then continue. If it's just a small amount, many couples choose to keep going.

2. Reducing output before intimacy:
- Some people suggest eating marshmallows shortly before being intimate, as they can temporarily slow down ileostomy output.

3. Body positioning and confidence:
- The ileostomy is often placed high enough on the abdomen that it doesn't interfere with most sexual activities. Try different positions to find what feels most comfortable for you.

4. Timing your intimate moments:
- Be aware of your usual "poop schedule" and plan intimate times when your output is typically lower. It's helpful if your partner is aware of this routine too.

5. Finding community and partners:
- Use the forum's "Members" search function to connect with other ostomates, especially those in the LGBTQ community in South Carolina or other areas, for friendship, support, or dating.