For the first time since I got my colostomy over 15 months ago, I will be going out of town. Driving to Las Vegas this coming Sunday and staying for 3 days. I will be getting out of my comfort zone of not being away from my home for more than several hours at a time. It has taken me a long time, but thanks to the advice and experience from the many on this site who travel, I am ready. It's a small step and my partner will be with me, but it is a start.
Hugo
Sep 03, 2025 12:57 pm
warrior
Sep 03, 2025 1:35 pm
Congratulations on "coming out"..... of your house for 15 months of building courage!!
One small step for you, one small step for others.
Good attitude. Good luck.
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infinitycastle52777
Sep 03, 2025 2:11 pm
That is great that you are going on your first trip away from home. I went on a small trip before my hernia surgery just to get away. It was a car trip too. I think going by car is a good start, as opposed to flying somewhere as your first trip. Take small steps. You can do it! I hope you have loads of fun! Glad your partner will be with you.
Justbreathe
Sep 03, 2025 2:40 pm
Good on you! Have a great time and hoping you return with a bag full… of money👊!!! jb
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SusanT
Sep 03, 2025 4:17 pm
Congratulations on making a step forward.
I have some mixed anxiety and excitement about my trip to see my mother in October. I'll be flying, so it's quite the deal! I will be on my own (hubby staying home), but I'm really happy to be doing it at all.
004dottie
Sep 03, 2025 5:49 pm
Great, Hugo. I hope you have a wonderful time. You and God have got this….
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Hugo
Sep 04, 2025 2:22 pm
Glad you're going to see your mother, Susan. I know you'll have a great time. There isn't anything you let get in your way.