Topic Explanation
The forum topic is about whether individuals with ostomies have given names to their stomas. The original poster shares that they have named their stoma "Frankie" and invites others to share if they have done something similar.
Advice and Insights
- Naming for Fun and Personalization:
- Some people find it fun and personal to name their stomas. Examples include "Frankie," "Jonah the Stoma," "Louise," "Wormy," "Marvin," and "Venus."
- Naming can add humor and a sense of companionship, making the experience more light-hearted.
- Practical Uses of Naming:
- Naming can be practical in social situations. For instance, one user mentioned they can excuse themselves by saying they need to check on "Louise" when their stoma causes trouble.
- Opposition to Naming:
- Several users do not see the point in naming their stomas, viewing it as just another body part. They compare it to naming other body parts like moles or rectums.
- Some believe that naming the stoma might create a sense of dualism, making it feel like something separate from their body rather than a part of them.
- Humorous and Creative Names:
- Users have shared creative and humorous names and stories, such as "NBH" (new butthole), "FBH" (front butt hole), and "Patch."
- One user humorously described their stoma as "that f*g thing down there."
- Cultural and Personal References:
- Names can be inspired by cultural references, such as "Marvin the Martian" from Looney Tunes.
- Personal experiences and observations also influence naming, like a stoma resembling a rosebud leading to the name "Marvin Rose."
- Mixed Reactions:
- The community shows a mix of reactions, with some embracing the idea for its fun and personal touch, while others prefer not to engage in naming their stomas.
- Humor and Poetry:
- The discussion includes humorous poems and verses about stomas, adding a light-hearted and creative element to the conversation.
- Acceptance and Normalization:
- Naming can help some individuals accept and normalize their stomas, making the experience less clinical and more integrated into their daily lives.
See full discusison