This topic is about the challenges someone is facing with their ostomy after undergoing hernia surgery. Initially, they had a positive experience with their ileostomy, finding the right products and routines rewarding because it allowed them to pass stool comfortably again. However, after the hernia surgery, things have become more difficult.

- The stoma has become flat, which can complicate the fitting of ostomy appliances.
- They have had to change their appliances and adhesives multiple times, which can be both frustrating and costly.
- The cost of supplies has increased significantly, making the care process feel like an "expensive nightmare."

The person believes that the issues they are experiencing might be related to the placement of the surgical mesh during the hernia repair. Although the surgery was technically successful, they are finding it hard to stay positive and are doing their best to manage the situation. They long for the ease they once had with their ostomy before the hernia surgery.

Others who have been through similar experiences understand the financial and emotional toll that comes with managing ostomy supplies and additional surgeries. They offer support and encouragement, suggesting that things can get better with time.