Hi everyone!
I have a hate/hate relationship with my stoma named Dammit (born 3/2017). I have a urostomy, and every few years I would have to change products… until this past summer. All I did was leak. In fact, there was a point when I had to change five times in one day. I spoke with one of the WOST nurses, and he was able to get me on a Hollister system… but that still hasn't stopped leaking completely.
For my yearly visit with my urologist in September, we discussed how to stop this constant leaking. I had thought about complete revision surgery, but he said that would be a bit risky. He suggested another surgery that I could have… called a functional abdominoplasty. I believe this has to do with removing flaps and an overglorified tummy tuck, and when I met with a plastic surgeon, he said I would be a perfect candidate for the surgery. I could even have the surgery before Christmas!
So the question I'm lobbing out to everyone is: has anyone had this surgery before? What is the recovery like, how long is the recovery, etc.? I am seeing a plastic surgeon who has done the surgery before and actually works with my urologist on these issues. Just trying to mentally prepare myself before I throw myself in the deep end.
I just look forward to the time that I can go out and not constantly be worried about leaking. I have leaked in so many public places over the past six months. It's kind of incredible how I've hidden it. So if anyone has any thoughts or advice, I would appreciate it very much. I'm also going to cross-post to the Reddit ostomy group.
In advance, thank you so much! And have a lovely day.
Mikhaela


