This topic is about dealing with a rectovaginal fistula that developed after a colostomy reversal. The person sharing their story had a colostomy for five years due to a Clostridium difficile infection and later developed a large parastomal hernia. After the colostomy was reversed, a rectovaginal fistula formed, causing distress and regret. They are now preparing for surgical repair and are looking for advice from others who have experienced similar situations.

Here are some helpful insights and advice:

1. Consider visiting the website "Nine-year stomaversary – TOMAS THE STOMA," run by Clare from Nottingham, UK. She shares personal experiences that might be relevant and helpful.

2. One person shared their experience of developing two enterocutaneous fistulas after a colon resection. Initially, they waited for the fistulas to close on their own, but this led to complications like gastrointestinal hemorrhaging. Eventually, they underwent surgery to remove the fistulas and associated abscesses, along with the creation of a colostomy. They reported feeling much better after the surgery. The key takeaway is that while fistulas can be very unpleasant, timely surgical intervention can provide significant relief, so it might be beneficial to embrace the upcoming surgery.