Topic Explanation
The initial post describes the struggles of a person named Judy after having ileostomy surgery, including multiple obstructions, severe pain, weight loss, and emotional distress.
Advice and Insights
- Ron in Mich suggests eating foods like bananas, applesauce, toast with peanut butter, and oatmeal to slow output.
- BEG shares her own experience and advises Judy to seek medical help, change her outlook, and engage in constructive activities to overcome struggles.
- Prime encourages Judy to change her outlook on her condition, set small goals, and learn from the experiences of others in the forum.
- Smylin advises Judy to focus on the positive aspects of life, be a success story to herself and others, and engage in selfless activities to combat loneliness and pain.
- Tess shares her own experience and emphasizes the importance of attitude in handling the challenges of living with an ostomy.
- Bill expresses gratitude for Judy's openness and shares his own coping mechanism of translating emotions into rhyming verse to manage the negative emotions.
- Mooza encourages Judy to embrace life, seek support, and make positive changes in her outlook and activities.
- Lisa shares her own experience and encourages Judy to find strength in herself and her worth, and to hug her dog and promise to live life.
- Doug shares his own story of overcoming challenges and encourages Judy to set goals for herself and make the most of her life.
- Marilyn advises Judy not to get frustrated, take care, and keep the faith, emphasizing the joy of being alive and not in hospitals.
- Shirley shares her experience and advises Judy to seek support, not give up, and find joy in the little things in life.
- Eddie reflects on the unconditional love of pets and the potential for humans to love each other in a similar way.
- Ron in Mich expresses his own emotional struggles related to his pet's failing health.
- Several forum members share their experiences with obstructions and offer advice on managing them, including dietary adjustments, seeking medical help, and finding coping mechanisms.
- Jayne seeks clarification on the meaning of the orange star on a forum member's profile icon.
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