This topic is about someone celebrating the one-year anniversary of their life-saving colostomy with a special retreat in the North Carolina mountains. They chose a cabin called "The Little House" near Marshall, NC, as a place to reflect, heal, and celebrate. The mountains are a personal sanctuary for them, offering a chance to meditate and process emotions like sadness, anger, and gratitude. This retreat is a way to find peace and celebrate life in a beautiful, natural setting.
Here are some insights and advice shared by others:
1. Life in the suburbs can be hectic, so the mountains provide a much-needed escape and refuge.
2. The cabin, owned by a friend's mother, is high in the mountains and was mostly unaffected by Hurricane Helene, except for a brief power outage.
3. A visit to Stoney Knob Cafe in nearby Weaverville is planned, as it has reopened and is welcoming guests.
4. The drive to the cabin took longer than usual due to traffic and a hurricane-damaged bridge, but the community spirit among mountain residents was strong and generous.
5. After returning home, the retreat was described as soul-cleansing and rejuvenating, marking the first long trip since surgery. The next goal is to fly.
6. The solitude also provided time to process grief over the loss of their mother five years ago.
Advice and insights from others include:
- Many encouraged enjoying the retreat, recharging, and celebrating the anniversary, highlighting the healing power of nature and solitude.
- Shared experiences included a member's first post-surgery vacation in Asheville, NC, and others finding personal healing in different natural settings.
- Safety tips after Hurricane Helene included checking the cabin's condition and local road conditions before arrival.
- Emotional support was offered to newcomers, with encouragement to use the retreat for gratitude and sharing stories to help others feel understood.
- Future retreat ideas included Westgate River Ranch in Florida for a nature-plus-comfort getaway.
- Light-hearted camaraderie was shared with jokes about meeting for dinner at Stoney Knob Cafe and ordering roasted duck, highlighting community bonding and humor.
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