This topic is about someone who had an ileostomy with proctectomy surgery, which involves creating a stoma and removing the rectum. After this procedure, the area where the anus used to be is closed, often referred to as a "Barbie bum." The person is experiencing persistent numbness in this area and is concerned about whether this loss of sensation is permanent.

Here are some insights and advice shared by others who have had similar experiences:

1. The numbness is likely due to nerve damage from the surgery. Nerve regeneration is a slow process and can take many months or even longer to improve.

2. Some people have experienced similar numbness that gradually got better over time. However, there are cases where the numbness has remained permanent, even 10 months after surgery.

3. Itching in the area where the skin is folded or stitched is common after surgery. A dermatologist might prescribe a low-strength steroid cream, like Desonide, which has been effective for some in relieving this itching.

4. Pain blocks used during surgery can delay the return of normal sensation, but they usually wear off within a few weeks. If numbness persists beyond this period, it is likely due to nerve trauma.

5. In these surgeries, the anus is typically removed as part of the proctectomy, resulting in the fully closed perineum, often referred to as a "Barbie bum.