This topic is about someone who is dealing with a lot of pain and stress due to their stoma, which might be related to IBS (Irritable Bowel Syndrome). They are waiting for an endoscopy to get more answers. Meanwhile, they are trying to manage the pain with medication, but it's not working as well as they hoped. On top of that, they are also worried about their husband, who is experiencing health issues of his own. Despite all this, they are trying to stay positive, thanks to the support from others in a forum community.

Here are some pieces of advice and insights shared by others:

1. Many people have offered emotional support and encouragement, reminding them to stay strong.
2. It's completely normal to feel overwhelmed and frustrated in such situations.
3. There is hope that the medical team will soon find out what's causing the pain and help resolve it.