Topic Explanation:
The original poster is seeking advice on using a ring under their flange to prevent leaks after undergoing surgery. They express frustration and panic due to experiencing leaks and feeling unprepared for this aspect of post-surgery care.

Advice and Insights:
- Measure your stoma when changing, as it will slowly deswell and you will have to adjust your appliance accordingly.
- Experiment with using a seal (Eakin, Adapt, et al) to see if it helps with leaks.
- The Eakin Ring can double wear time and might be worth using.
- Be patient and have faith, as many people with an ostomy live normal, active lives.
- Search for advice on correcting leaks and consider dietary adjustments, such as avoiding high fiber foods and eating smaller portions more often.
- Use a soap without oils or perfumes, such as "Yellow Dial," to prep the site where the flange goes.
- Consider using a wipe-on or spray-on skin prep to seal the skin and prevent leaks and sore skin.
- Don't suffer in silence, ask for help and demand support.
- Leaking is not normal, and it will get better.
- Avoid using soap or skin cream while changing the wafer, and ensure the area is dried completely.
- Consider using a small fan to dry the area and provide relief to the skin.
- Use a skin barrier prep like Cavilon to protect the skin and help the wafer stick better.
- Consider using tape around the wafer for extra protection, especially at night.
- Give yourself time to learn the process, as it may take several months to feel more confident in ostomy care.

Conclusion:
The forum members offer valuable advice and support to help the original poster manage leaks and adjust to post-surgery care.