Let's talk about stoma pain and sensitivity, which can be quite uncomfortable and concerning. If you're experiencing this, here are some gentle suggestions that might help ease the discomfort:

1. For temporary relief, you can apply gel lidocaine directly to the painful area. This can help numb the pain for a while.

2. To soothe irritation, try using Tucks rectal wipes, which contain witch hazel. Gently use them around the stoma to calm the skin.

3. When you're at home, consider giving your skin a break by switching from your regular wafer and pouch to a small stoma cap. This can help reduce contact and pressure on the area.

4. To moisturize and protect the stoma, you might lightly coat it with petroleum jelly. Just be cautious not to block the stoma opening, and remember that petroleum can affect how well your wafer sticks, so it's a good idea to check the seal often.