This topic is about a man in his 60s who had an ileostomy surgery, which involved the removal of his bowel and anus. After the surgery, he experienced erectile dysfunction (ED), a condition that can happen when pelvic nerves are affected during such procedures. His surgeon mentioned that nerve recovery could take up to three years.

Three years later, he found himself in a new relationship with someone who also has an ostomy. He noticed some signs of nerve recovery, like brief morning erections, and his gastroenterologist suggested trying sildenafil, commonly known as Viagra. Initially, his general practitioner (GP) said he didn't qualify for an NHS prescription for Viagra and would need to pay for it privately. However, after the man insisted, the GP checked the guidelines and found that he was eligible under the category of "pelvic operations." As he is over 60, he received the prescription for free.

Here are some pieces of advice and insights shared by others:

1. Fellow members encouraged him to stay positive and enjoy his new relationship.
2. They shared humor and support, suggesting he keep the community updated on his experiences with Viagra.
3. The importance of advocating for oneself in medical situations was highlighted, as it led to him receiving the treatment he needed.