This topic is about the age limits often found in online profiles and whether they are helpful or restrictive, especially in the context of ostomy forums. An older male ostomate has noticed that many online profiles limit communication to certain age groups. While this might make sense for casual chats about generational interests, he believes it can be counter-productive in forums where people share medical experiences and practical tips that are relevant to everyone, regardless of age. He is concerned that younger members might miss out on valuable advice if they exclude older individuals and hopes that age filters don’t prevent cross-generational support.

Here are some helpful insights and advice on this topic:

1. While age preferences are understandable, they might block valuable support. Often, real-world help comes from people outside our preferred age group.

2. Older members can help bridge the age gap by:
- Listening first and offering brief, relevant comments that respect the comfort levels of younger members.
- Using empathy, kindness, and patience to show they are available without being intrusive.
- Sharing emotional understanding through creative means, like rhyming verses, to show that feelings are common across ages.

3. The emotions related to living with an ostomy are universal. Differences in age do not negate shared experiences or the ability to relate to one another.

4. Practical knowledge about ostomy care, such as appliance care and lifestyle adaptations, is relevant across generations. Open communication benefits everyone involved.

5. Age filters might be intended for dating or closer relationships, not for friendship or support. Members should consider widening their settings for health-related discussions.

6. The strength of a community lies in recognizing that, despite surface differences, people often have more in common than they realize. Keeping communication channels open maximizes the collective experience and help available.