The topic is about finding safe and effective ways to remove hair from the skin around a stoma, known as peristomal skin. The discussion focuses on whether depilatory creams like Neet or Veet are suitable for this sensitive area.

Here are some insights and advice shared:

1. One person tried Veet after a positive recommendation:
- They first did a patch test on a small area of skin away from the stoma, which showed no reaction and removed hair easily.
- A second patch test on the healthy outer edge of the flange also went well.
- However, a full application closer to the stoma caused a burning sensation, leading to irritation and redness. As a result, they decided not to use depilatory creams again and are considering professional laser hair removal in the future.

2. A nurse-recommended approach suggests that Neet or Veet can be effective:
- It's important to do a patch test on non-peristomal skin first to check for any allergic reactions or irritation.
- Some users have found that with repeated use, hair growth slows down, making it possible to switch back to simple shaving later on.

3. If depilatory creams cause irritation, consider using a battery-powered ear, nose, or mustache trimmer:
- These trimmers are inexpensive, around $10, and users report they do not cause nicks, cuts, or ingrown hairs, making them a gentle alternative for hair removal around the stoma.