Color Logo for MeetAnOstoMate
Sponsored by Hollister
Login   |  
Forgot password?
 
Forum
Videos
Reviews
About Us
Color Logo for MeetAnOstoMate
Where Everybody Understands You
40,871 members
Oct 12, 2017

When to Share Personal Health Details While Dating?

Topic Explanation:
The forum topic "Breaking the news" discusses the appropriate timing and methods for disclosing to a potential romantic partner that one has a colostomy. The original poster mentions their usual approach of simply blurting it out, and seeks input on how others handle this sensitive disclosure.

Advice and Insights:
1. Timing of Disclosure:
- It's generally advised to disclose personal medical information such as having a colostomy early in the relationship, especially if the relationship is becoming serious. This allows both parties to understand each other's situations and decide if they want to continue developing the relationship.

2. Methods of Disclosure:
- Directly blurting it out is a common approach and is appreciated for its straightforwardness.
- Using humor or light-hearted methods to disclose the information can ease the conversation and make the situation more comfortable for both parties.

3. Impact of Disclosure:
- Early disclosure helps in avoiding future complications or misunderstandings in the relationship.
- It also tests the depth of the relationship and the partner's acceptance of the condition, which is crucial for long-term compatibility.

4. Personal Experiences:
- Some individuals prefer to share this information at the point when the relationship is heading towards a more committed phase.
- Others find that sharing such personal details early on helps in determining if the potential partner is understanding and accepting of their condition.

5. Additional Considerations:
- The manner of disclosure can significantly affect how the information is received. Being confident and open about one's condition can help in normalizing the conversation.
- It's important to be prepared for different reactions, as not everyone may respond positively. However, this can be a good filter to understand if the person is right for a long-term relationship.
See full discusison
Gray Logo for MeetAnOstoMate
Why Join MeetAnOstoMate?

This is a remarkable community of 40,871 members.

You will get real advice from fellow ostomates who truly understand you - things you won't find in the books.

And it's not all about ostomy - there is friendship and relationships too.

Privacy is very important - your profile is not visible to the outside world.

Join Us

Popular Topics

Improving Sore Skin Around Inverted Stoma: Tips and Experiences
Ileostomy Bag Pain and Stoma Size Changes
Stoma Protection for Driving and Gym Activities
Exercising
Am I Being Too Fussy About My Stoma Care?
Hi, I'm Brittany!
New Member
Ice Bath with a 3-Month-Old Stoma: Is It Safe?
Changing a Convatec Natura 2-Piece Pouch: Disposal Tips
My morning walk

New Topics

Living Boldly with Ostomies: My Journey with Pole and Aerial Arts
Questions About Protein Shakes and Diet Advice
Friend to chat with and discuss Stoma's
Jump Rope with an Ileostomy: Experiences and Precautions
1 Year After Colostomy Reversal: My Experience and Challenges
Coloplast Bag Sizing Issues: Who's Responsible?
Episode 11. Collaring the Weasel.
Success Stories with Parastomal Hernia Repair?
UK Radar Key
AGING AND LEARNING
About us | Privacy policy | Terms of use | Ostomy Blogs | Ostomy Q&A | Guides | Contact Us
This site is protected by reCAPTCHA and the Google Privacy Policy and Terms of Service apply.
Copyright (c) MeetAnOstoMate.org All Rights Reserved
Join
Currently Online: 25  
↑