Hi,
I have had my ileostomy now for 7 yrs and its doing great and so am I now after almost dying a couple of times before it. However, I have tried the dating sites and trying to meet people. I have tried not telling them right away and waiting until they get to know me a bit and I have tried telling them right away, and every time once they look it up .. they run and I never hear from them again. Its getting quite disappointing for sure. I have a lot of love to offer the right person, but they never stick around long enough to find that out. I'm starting to wonder if there are any men without them that aren't so shallow they don't want to see me for me not for my pouch! :(
Any suggestions? And sadly I am way up here in VT and there's no one on here from anywhere around me. And 7 states away is pretty hard to maintain a relationship even if it happened. Just looking for some advice. I refuse to give up trying but it gets very disappointing after a while.
Thanks
PAS