Bertie's Journey: Overcoming Challenges And Finding Success With An Ileostomy

RoanokeVirginiaArmyBrat · 2021-12-09T20:27:18-05:00

I was born with Hirschsprung's disease. My first enema was at a week old. I would go as long as 4 weeks without a bowel movement. By the time I was 60, my colon had no nerve endings so the only way I could have a bowel movement was with laxatives and stool softeners. At 77, I was up to 8 laxatives and 5 stool softeners nightly, and that was just to have 1 movement. Then in the fall of 2020, something happened and I had no control over my colon until about noon each day. If I didn't take the pills or tried to cut back, then nothing happened. Finally, a wonderful PA I saw post-hemorrhoid surgery suggested I have an ileostomy. I wanted to hug her. They ran all the tests necessary and in late January 2021, the decision was made to have the surgery. I named my future stoma Bertie, a nickname my father wanted to give me at birth. When I joined this group, I was 5 months post-surgery, with no success in preventing leakage. I was on a very special diet and tried different types of barriers, with no success. Then in August, my life turned around. One day I called Hollister to speak with customer service. After telling the wonderful lady my problem, she asked me to measure the distance between the middle of Bertie and the small hole that was once my navel. When I did, she said that my problem was the fact that the barriers I was using fell over the old navel and when I laid down, the barrier was coming up and causing leakage. She sent me a larger barrier, new barrier strips, and a moldable ring. Since I changed equipment, life has been great. I no longer leak and only change twice a week. Bertie is very happy. I'm back on a regular diet. The only foods I'm not eating are large amounts of corn, popcorn, and lettuce. Next summer, I am going to try corn-on-the-cob.On another subject, I started having mucus balls coming out of my rectum. My home health nurse and I named them alien turds. They don't happen often, but the surgeon said they will always be around. So don't distress if you feel like you need to pass gas. I'm so thankful I had this surgery and that I get to spend the rest of my years with Bertie.

Bertie's Journey: Overcoming Challenges and Finding Success with an Ileostomy

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Past Member

Dec 25, 2021 3:30 pm

I only swim in the ocean. I used to use pools but decided the ocean is less monotonous.

Past Member

Dec 25, 2021 3:32 pm

I'm thinking the clothing is dependent on the type of ostomy and the type of swimming you do? I have a Koch pouch and prefer ocean swimming, so for me, a wetsuit and no patch works best. Likely, if you have leaking issues or an ileostomy, you will want to wear some type of appliance or patch?

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Posted by: Immarsh

Hi Hatlady and all,

I've had my ostomy for over 50 years, since I was a kid, and didn't think I really needed to be part of the ostomy site. But once active, I came to realize, that although I may not need help at the time, I was able to reach out and help others in need. Back in the day, before stoma therapists, I use to visit new patients in the hospital or homes ... While professionals are great, it is also good to be able to speak with people with personal experience. I was a free member for awhile, but after writing often, I was given free months. I then started paying, and decided to just take lifetime membership. After all, I was going to have my ostomy for the rest of my life. I'm one of those people who can disappear for a few months at a time, but I'm always glad that the site is here, I can return and reconnect with old friends, and make new ones. This is an excellent site ... Best regards to all ... and Best wishes for a Healthy and Happy New Year.

kray

Dec 27, 2021 3:38 pm

What is the big deal about swimming? Put on a swimming suit (I must admit I wear a spandex panty under mine to keep the appliance close to my body) and choose a suit with a pattern or ruching on the side with the pouch. Then get in the water. I do water aerobics or swim or even sit in a hot tub. No problems. You can't stop living because you have a different way to eliminate waste. Go enjoy life!!

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