My stoma is "Rosie" and we love our shower day, naked. No problem, have toilet paper ready when you get out and then put on the new pouch! My hubby helps me with that.
howlinghillsfarm
Sep 22, 2024 7:26 pm
orfalinda65
Sep 22, 2024 9:49 pm
Hi! There's no problem with the stoma getting wet in the shower. I don't soap it up but I do wash around it. I feel cleaner than when I leave the bag on. Just try not to eat before the shower to keep the output to a minimum.
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About seven years ago, just about every aspect of my life was ostomy related. From the moment I was told an ostomy might be needed until some months down the road I existed as a person afflicted with a colostomy. I feared someone other than my immediate family might find out I had a bag. Ugh! What could be worse? Suppose it filled real fast when I was out with no place to hide and take care of myself. God forbid should it leak in church! Suppose I roll over on it in bed. I was a lesser creature, destined to a life of emotional anguish and physical routines different from most of the rest of the world. I felt like a freak. Then I found folks like you guys here, read your stuff, really “listened” to what you had to say and I began looking at things differently. We know perception is everything and I began to understand how good things were relative to what they could’ve been. So many folks had it so much worse than I did. That didn’t make my discomfort go away but it exposed how fortunate I was to be dealing with my stuff and not their’s. I felt a little guilt, maybe selfishness but quickly forgave myself by understanding I just wasn’t smart enough to fix my feelings. Then, I wonder what smarts have to do with feelings. My perception was warped so my perspective toward my existence was warped.
I learned over the last few years with the help of lots of folks right here at MAO that I could be better at living just by accepting some facts. It is what it is and so what? It’s not the worst thing to happen to a person.
I think everything is, in some way, related to everything else. I just put the ostomy thing in the back seat and drive forward.
Respectfully,
Mike
Winnie The Pooh
Sep 22, 2024 10:25 pm
Mine tends to shut up when hit by water. But if it doesn't, there's always the old waffle-stomp. And, yeah, a good sluice of water from a bucket ensures nothing remains lurking in the drain.
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Bilbo baggins
Sep 23, 2024 8:21 am
Bilbo behaving badly this morning.
My stoma had been feeling a bit sore yesterday, so I thought a shower without Bilbo would be just the thing.
Oh boy, Bilbo went volcanic in the shower.
I have always found that first thing in the morning was the quieter time, but not today.
Bilbo will be staying muzzled next time.
Happy Stomaland daze.
Chris S
Pouch Potato
Sep 25, 2024 4:06 am
I just had my first naked shower and it felt so good! I was in a hotel that had a strong shower, so I decided to go for it. And my stoma behaved. Afterwards, I lay on the bed on a towel to dry naturally and have more naked time. My skin really appreciated the break from adhesives.
My apprehension about doing this at home is if poop comes out and gets stuck in the drain. Hopefully, I'll get over this.
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wheezie33
Sep 25, 2024 2:06 pm
I have never showered without the appliance on. Although if I do change it after a hot shower, I tend to have leaks, not sure why - saw one post where someone said hot water can wreak havoc. Actually, everything I liked, I hardly do anymore, like swimming, etc. And I do feel as I get older there are problems that I didn't deal with in the beginning.
I do clean the area around the stoma, just not like other people lathering up the area. I think I'd have more problems with the appliance and am surprised that other people aren't having issues.
warrior
Sep 25, 2024 3:16 pm
Hi and welcome. You would be surprised we don't have issues because through trial and error we learn how to do it right.
Nothing should stop you from swimming with the right know-how.
You are new to the site and lessons will be learned, and in time you will become a teacher or mentor.
Hot showers? That's a no-no right from the start.
Being dry at the stoma site is a must for proper sealing and adhesion. Some use a hair dryer set on low. I prefer waving a piece of cardboard to fan dry it. Or...just allow it to air dry completely.
No worries. You will become an expert in no time. Experiment. Take a chance. Try noting some tricks we use.
You will be okay.
warrior
Sep 25, 2024 6:01 pm
But you're Superman! Water bounces right off you. Steam doesn't affect you like us mere mortals. 😄
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AlexT
Sep 25, 2024 6:34 pm
You’re only not doing things you like cause you’re letting your mind dictate things. Showering with no bag on is IMO one of the best things for your peristomal skin. Try some things, you’ll be surprised how well things go. 👍
Justbreathe
Sep 25, 2024 7:54 pm
You can lead a stoma to water, but you can't make it drink... oh wait, never mind... that's a horse. You can lead a stoma to water, and it helps get rid of the stink... 😝🥴
TerryLT
Sep 25, 2024 8:59 pm
It is a shame you are letting your ostomy limit yourself so much. I take hot showers every day, including on change day, and I agree with Alex that it's the best thing for your peristomal skin to shower without your appliance on. I lather my stoma up well and rinse well. If you are having leaks after having a hot shower, without your appliance on, my guess would be that after that hot shower, your bathroom is steamy and maybe you aren't getting the skin around your stoma dry enough in the moist atmosphere. Do you have a good fan in your bathroom? If not, maybe shower with the door open? Make sure to get the skin around your stoma really dry. You say you aren't swimming either? Why? There are various threads on this site about swimming, and there is no reason why you shouldn't be able to. It's something I do all the time.
Terry