When I first came on the site, I thought that too. I thought it's not for me; I am exhausted all the time, and these people have lives, lol.
So I left it for a few years and came back out of necessity, really, to get answers. There's a wealth of knowledge on here I wish I had tapped into years ago. I came back a year or two ago as a paid member, just to try to connect with people. It's lonely struggling on your own. The last few months, I found it especially helpful just to chat and see how others are coping, etc.
So welcome, and I hope you find some answers if you have any.
Sarah