|w30bob wrote: |
Â Oh, I sure wasn't implying any desperation on your part, I was just letting you know how many I found because of what Cplumber said above.Â Many, if not most, of the profiles on here are ghosts.Â Those ostomates have either moved on with their lives, died or only check in very infrequently.Â So just finding someone in your area requires as wide a net as possible.Â Where it goes from there falls prey to the same pitfalls as all online dating.Â Â
Â We talked about people puting a date on their profile and then updating it yearly or so......otherwise we're guilty of the same thing as the ghosts.Â People always write in their profiles "I was operated on in June and here I am.......". Well.......WHAT YEAR?Â Â I just assume if someone hasn't been online recently (and when you look at someone's profile it tells you when they were last online) that they're long gone!Â One way or the other.Â Â
Â So good luck..........and don't forget the other ostomy dating site...........ostodate.com.Â Almost all the folks here are also over there, and a few more.Â Seems that site is more aboutÂ relationships, and not discussion.Â Â
No worries, Bob. I knew you were not doing that. Lol. Its me. I just got done writing you a very long nice letter and when I hit submit, I guess it didn't go thru? Said error. Maybe its because I wasnt logged on. I know about Ostodate, and filled out some questions on the page, then hit the Join button. My Gosh. That has been 3 months ago or longer, and everytime, I can find it, and go back to it, it still says my membership is pending?? What the ?Â Is that on FaceBook, or a seperate group all together? If you have a link to it, will you please send it to me? Thankyou. On more question. Other people on here, cannot see our emails, can they? Im a paid member, are you? I hate to have to keep logging into this site, eerytime I want to look around, or talk to someone. I guess, Im getting impatient in my Golden years. S the Golden years. I have made up my mind, Im not getting old! Gonna live in a Peter Pan world the rest of my God given days, LOLOLOLOLÂ Â Â Take care, pay. and stay safe !!