Urostomy Experiences for Severe Interstitial Cystitis?

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badj
Sep 15, 2020 1:47 pm

Hello! I'm a 36 y/o lady with IC. I've been planning on getting a Urostomy for almost a year now, but due to covid, things were put off for quite awhile. Just got the ball rolling again and may be getting my sugery in just a few months now. 
I'm curious if there's anyone else here who got a urostomy due to severe/end-stage interstitital cystitis. I had joined a specific group about this on FB but the group was too focused on religion for me and I was kicked for even asking about it :/  

I've been pretty much 99% homebound since the pandemic started because I was already mostly homebound due to IC. I just keep thinking about how I could go for car rides or go hiking during this isolated time, *if* I'd already had surgery. I'm really scared of the surgery itself (afraid of sepsis, I'm emetophobic so Im terrified of blockage or anything that will potentially make me vomit) but I really want to be able to go out into the world again, so it's worth it to me.. Just want to reach out and see if anyone else here has had a similar experience getting an ostomy after IC so I know I can post questions and someone will "get it". (If you're reading this and haven't heard of interstitial cystitis, please read up if you get the chance. Not many are aware of the disease but it is absolutely horrible and they say the pain is comparable to stage 4 cancer pain). 

I am in a local support group but we haven't been meeting due to the pandemic. We will have zoom meetings starting next month so that's a relief :,) Anyway, nice to meet ya'll. Glad this is here.

Past Member
Sep 15, 2020 2:32 pm

Hi badj, 

I'm not familiar with IC, but I will definitely look it up to learn more about it. I'm sorry you are in so much pain, and you're right - a pandemic is a lousy time to be going through this, but I'm glad to have reached out to us on this site. I hope someone with some relevant experience will be able to connect with you. You are doing all that you can, it sounds like. I'm glad to hear that your support group will be meeting by zoom soon - you need some answers and reassurance. Surgery of any kind is frightening for most of us. Feel free to reach out anytime to us on this site, even if it's just to vent. Venting about the unfairness and scariness of one's situation is encouraged, badj. We are here to listen. Take good care.

 

Laurie

Posted by: drfields24

Hello everyone!!!

It has been almost a year since joining this site. I just wanted to share. I know a lot of people get concerned about meeting someone on here. I'm not a lifer membership and I had someone initiate to take me out. I've been divorced since 2009. He lives in Chicago. I ignored the first time thinking he was joking. I live in Milwaukee. So a month later he sent me a message through this site saying he wanted to meet me. That was in April this year. I must say it was the best thing that could happen to me. We talk almost every day. We have so much in common. He comes up all the time to spend the day or weekend together. It really does make a difference when someone has an ostomy like you. Such understanding and we always have something to talk about. I want to share because sometimes people think it's hard to meet someone or they say this site doesn't work. I'm a testimony that this site does work. We are talking marriage this time next year. I will keep you posted.

Shar
Oct 03, 2020 5:02 am

My urostomy is due to bladder cancer.  But drthought IC for a few months.  But further tested showed differently.   
the spams just before and after peeing was so horrible.  And I had blood in my urine  that you could see in the toilet.     I had to leave work many times because of pain before my surgery.   
best of luck to you.