I've been through loosing husband of 28 years then within months having cancer and having the one solid rock not there to help me through. Surviving cancer twice on your own then having reconstructive surgery and an ostomy has been extremely difficult. I long for someone like him to be by my side, my Shallow Hal. In reality, there's been no one. I'm just a bag lady with no rectum and I feel like a freak show. Memories of being sexy and pretty are just that... All the people you meet on here live worlds away . Just feeling really defeated and sad...
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