I always knew it would come to this. Everyone has heard stories about my fistula; well, it drains, then it stops, and stuff comes out in my bag like normal. Since 1 week ago, it has poured and poured sewage out of my vagina. Not supposed to do that. So today, I am at my hospital in Nashville, Vanderbilt. My doctor may schedule my surgery. It is a 10-hour operation, which I really dread. She should be here anytime now, and we will talk. I will be getting food through my IV today, and the draining has slowed up some. Just keep me in your prayers... Love, Jeanie in Georgia
jeaniefrances
Mar 29, 2010 6:11 pm
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Mar 29, 2010 6:21 pm
I will pray for your speedy recovery and welcome you back to the site very soon. We need your input on this site; it is of much value to many people.
Bobby
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Hi Crossley. Ya know, I think it’s all about feelings. I don’t mean the pain feelings which could control everything. I mean the feelings inside our heads, our hearts and even our souls. I mean the feelings of who we are now compared to who we were; how we accept our situation or maybe we don’t. My wife asked how I felt and I said, “like crap”. She asked what hurt and I answered, “Nothing hurts, well, everything hurts, I don’t know, It all sucks.” That was a long time ago. You question if your feelings are normal. How normal is it to relocate your butt hole to your belly where it’s usually in the way of your belt and, you know. But that’s where we are and for lots of us we are so much better off than we were before, physically. Emotionally, psychologically, well, that might be a different story. I believe talk therapy is wonderful if we could find a real empathic or sympathetic listener. So guess what! I found MAO and began “talking” with a keyboard with some of the wisest, kindest most sympathetic and compassionate folks on the planet. Regardless of where we’ve been, lots of folks here have been there and worse places and found their way back healthier and happier. We really do help each other.
Keep “talking”,
Mike
facingmyfears
Mar 29, 2010 9:56 pm
Jeanie,
many, many prayers and good thoughts are coming your way!!!!!
Stay strong, you will be just fine... I'm sure it won't be easy, but I know you can do it!
Your friend, Sharon
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eddie
Mar 29, 2010 10:34 pm
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Jeanie, we all are kind of like family; we hang tight. Of course, I will pray for you. It will get better, girl! Take care!
eddie
lottagelady
Mar 29, 2010 10:36 pm
Fistulas suck - you are in my thoughts and prayers, Jeanie. Let us know how you get on - big hugs....
Rach xx
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Mar 30, 2010 1:53 am
Good luck, hope you are better soon
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gutenberg
Mar 30, 2010 6:04 pm
Jeaniefrances, I'm hardly what you'd call a religious person, but rest assured I will say a prayer for your speedy recovery. Hugs, Ed.
beatrice
Mar 30, 2010 6:30 pm
Jeaniefrances -- thinking of you. Be courageous, think positive thoughts. Hugs.
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dee05
Mar 30, 2010 10:58 pm
Wishing you all the best during and after your surgery... Warm wishes are sent your way...
You are in my prayers...
junopete
Mar 31, 2010 7:36 pm
Jeannefrances,
You are in my mind's eye. I hope the procedure is successful. I think there is a lot of "Mo-Jo" on this board that is behind you. I certainly am.
Rick.....
Gus
Mar 31, 2010 8:49 pm
Yanno Jeannie, as scary as it may seem, try and look at it this way. If 10 hours out of my life on an operating table gives me a better life when I come home, then it's a mere traffic stop. Wishing you all the best, and sorry, but I don't pray, but I will send good healing thoughts your way. Chin up, I'll be thinking of you
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Kathleen53
Apr 01, 2010 3:50 am
Dear Jeanie Frances, stay strong and just know that we are all praying and sending good thoughts your way. We look forward to hearing from you soon, and you'll soon be on the road to recovery. Take care, best wishes, Sue
aquarius44
Apr 09, 2010 3:54 am
Hi Jeannie, my name is Barbara, and 1 year ago I had an ileostomy done at Vanderbilt. I'm sure your doctor is Roberta Muldoon. She is very good. Lots of luck and get well soon.
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Apr 09, 2010 6:27 pm
This touched my heart, and I am so sorry you have to go through so much. I will also pray for fast healing, as no one deserves to suffer any longer than necessary. I just can't believe your story, and you aren't even that far away from me, as I am also in GA. I have a good friend who lives in the town you do. All I can say is, why do bad things really happen to good people? God bless again. Love, JG