Living with Ostomy: My 38-Year Journey

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sounida
Jan 28, 2022 11:43 am

Hi Ostomates, I have been in this forum since 2011 but never shared about myself. I thought I would share my experience being an Ostomate if it can be an encouragement to anyone. I had my urostomy at the age of 14. No cancer, no bladder disease! I suffered chemical burns of the bladder and sphincter muscles when I went for a cystoscopy at the local hospital. (For those who don't know about cystoscopy: in the 80s, this procedure was done by filling the bladder via catheter with 2% potassium iodide solution and taking an X-ray to check for possible stones in the bladder or possible changes in the kidneys. These solutions were prepared by the nurses or pharmacist during that time.) Following this, I had septicemia and went into a coma for 15 days with acute kidney failure. The kidneys recovered after peritoneal dialysis, and I came out of the coma. But my bladder was completely damaged, and I had incontinence. After a year of waiting (and incontinence), I had my urostomy (ileostomy) surgery and was reborn again 😊. Though there are small glitches being an ostomate, like occasional midnight leakage or sudden leakage during work hours, strong odor of the bag, it's been 38 years of ostomy life. I can't recollect how it feels to pee normally 😊. Like I read in one of the comments, we have pluses too. I don't need to sit on the public toilet seat! In 2010, I underwent nephrectomy (right kidney) as there was an 8 cm stone in my right ureter, which caused hydronephrosis to that kidney. I am thankful to God for these experiences. I like being in this forum to read/hear what others go through in their ostomy life and take inspiration from their journeys.

Past Member
Jan 28, 2022 12:04 pm

Thank you so much for sharing Sounida. πŸ˜Š

ron in mich
Jan 28, 2022 2:13 pm

Hi Sounida, welcome to the site. I also suffer from kidney stones and needed one large one removed. I've also been an ileostomate for 30 some years and have had a few accidents along the way.

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If I was a relative newbie with an ostomy, I have no doubt that this site would be very helpful to me.  The members are quick to respond to questions and issues and they are filled with experience.  When I joined, I already had a lifetime with an ostomy, so I just regard it as a place to meet and communicate with other folks similarly situated.  Either way, it is a good site.

Caz67
Jan 28, 2022 2:57 pm

Welcome to the forum, great to see you have decided to open up with us, long may it continue XX

lovely
Jan 28, 2022 5:10 pm

Welcome to the site, thanks for sharing.

 

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Morning glory
Jan 28, 2022 10:55 pm

Hi sounida, I am happy you shared your story after being on here since 2011. You certainly had a hard journey. I am glad you’re sharing and taking part in the forum now. Things have come a long way medically since 2011. Stay healthy.

sounida
Jan 30, 2022 4:59 am

Thanks for sharing Ron. Hope you are well now. My stone was in the ureter and had to be removed via surgery. These were formed by an organism Pseudomonas . How did they remove yours?

Axl
Jan 30, 2022 11:30 am

Kidney stones ... Been there a few times .. blah

ron in mich
Jan 30, 2022 2:07 pm

Hi Sounida, the stone I had never made it out of the kidney, and it started an infection, so they went in via the catheter and lasered it.

sounida
Jan 31, 2022 2:54 am

Hi Ron,

Okay. Take care. Nice chatting with you :)

Toppermost
Feb 02, 2022 9:13 am

Good for you Sounida! There is a Chinese expression..Grief shared is halved. Joy shared is doubled. That is why sharing on this site is so beneficial!

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