Just released from the hospital on Feb 10, having trouble choosing an ostomy bag.
Sunshinealot
Mar 01, 2023 6:16 pm
AlexT
Mar 01, 2023 6:34 pm
What type of ostomy? For now, you'll definitely want a drainable one. One or two pieces and any other option is kind of a personal preference.
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Ben38
Mar 01, 2023 7:32 pm
Any problems with the ostomy bags the hospital sent you home with? If not, I would carry on using them for the time being.
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TerryLT
Mar 01, 2023 9:04 pm
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eefyjig
Mar 01, 2023 9:06 pm
Hi Sunshinealot (great name, especially on this cold, dreary NY day!) I concur with what Ben said. I would continue to use whatever I was sent home with for now. I don't know if you have an ileostomy or a colostomy, but I'm pretty sure that, with both, the stoma shrinks for the first couple of weeks. It's important to continue to re-measure the size of your stoma during that time so that whatever bag you use will fit around your stoma and not be too big to cause leaks. The cut-to-fit bags are good at the beginning for that reason; you can just cut the hole smaller as your stoma shrinks. If you're going to order your supplies from an ostomy supply company, like Edgepark or Byram, you can ask for their assistance in what to order. They're really helpful.