STOMA STIGMA verse

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Bill
Dec 02, 2011 7:13 pm


‘STOMA STIGMA’.

A stigma is disgrace or shame.
And socially unacceptable.
Sometimes it’s clear within a frame.
Sometimes it’s imperceptible.

A stoma is the sort of thing.
That draws the stigma out.
For some it is embarrassing.
Not to be proud about.

Some people tend to stigmatise.
And do not even know it.
Some know not how to empathise.
And therefore cannot show it.

Some seem to have a prejudice.
So stoma’s not their taste.
Some suffer a paralysis.
Against the body’s waste.

Stoma stigma’s just like this.
Some people have it badly
They won’t talk of poo or piss.
So avoid the subject madly.

They’ll freely talk of broken bones.
And accidents they’ve had.
When I talk about my Crohns'.
They treat me like I’m mad.

Where talk of stomas is taboo.
The stigma’s there as well.
With ostomates this is not true.
As you can surely tell.

Stigmas come in many forms.
They must be overcome.
Not everyone can cope with poos.
That don’t come from their bum

With time and effort from us all.
We can stop the stigma rot.
When there’s no stigma to recall.
Stoma stigma is stoma so-what!

B. Withers 2011






Bill
Dec 02, 2011 10:21 am
My thanks to everyone who contriobuted to the 'stoma stigma' forum post and therefore contributed to this verse. Best wishes Bill
Posted by: Immarsh

Hi Hatlady and all,

I've had my ostomy for over 50 years, since I was a kid, and didn't think I really needed to be part of the ostomy site. But once active, I came to realize, that although I may not need help at the time, I was able to reach out and  help others in need. Back in the day, before stoma therapists, I use to visit new patients in the hospital or homes ... While professionals are great, it is also good to be able to speak with people with personal experience. I was a free member for awhile, but after writing often, I was given free months. I then started paying, and decided to just take lifetime membership. After all, I was going to have my ostomy for the rest of my life. I'm one of those people who can disappear for a few months at a time, but I'm always glad that the site is here, I can return and reconnect with old friends, and make new ones. This is an excellent site ... Best regards to all ... and Best wishes for a Healthy and Happy New Year.

banshie3by5
Dec 02, 2011 6:24 pm
Sweet!
banshie3by5
Dec 02, 2011 6:24 pm

Ps...it's spelled like John...Crohn's :)~

Bill
Dec 02, 2011 7:13 pm
Hello Banshie3by5, Thanks for pointing out the spelling error - it has now been edited. (It is a good indication that this concept was contributed by someone else!) Bill
 

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MrsO
Dec 03, 2011 12:44 am

Hi Bill, this is the first time I've commented on the verses you've posted. Sorry, I've never put anything before. Just wanted to say how much I enjoy reading your work. Often makes me stop and think or smile. Mrs. O xx

Bill
Dec 03, 2011 8:38 am
Hello MrsO, Thank you very much for your post and I'm so pleased that yo8u have enjoyed the verses. I sometimes look at how many people have viewed the blogs and wonder what they think. Feedback like yours is therefore so important, otherwise I would be writing in a vacuum with no idea as to whether anyone else might appreciate it. Best wishes Bill
Past Member
Dec 03, 2011 5:40 pm

Hi Bill, fantastic poem couldn't have been said better than a poem, well done...ambies...