STOMA STIGMA verse

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Bill
Dec 02, 2011 7:13 pm


‘STOMA STIGMA’.

A stigma is disgrace or shame.
And socially unacceptable.
Sometimes it’s clear within a frame.
Sometimes it’s imperceptible.

A stoma is the sort of thing.
That draws the stigma out.
For some it is embarrassing.
Not to be proud about.

Some people tend to stigmatise.
And do not even know it.
Some know not how to empathise.
And therefore cannot show it.

Some seem to have a prejudice.
So stoma’s not their taste.
Some suffer a paralysis.
Against the body’s waste.

Stoma stigma’s just like this.
Some people have it badly
They won’t talk of poo or piss.
So avoid the subject madly.

They’ll freely talk of broken bones.
And accidents they’ve had.
When I talk about my Crohns'.
They treat me like I’m mad.

Where talk of stomas is taboo.
The stigma’s there as well.
With ostomates this is not true.
As you can surely tell.

Stigmas come in many forms.
They must be overcome.
Not everyone can cope with poos.
That don’t come from their bum

With time and effort from us all.
We can stop the stigma rot.
When there’s no stigma to recall.
Stoma stigma is stoma so-what!

B. Withers 2011






Bill
Dec 02, 2011 10:21 am
My thanks to everyone who contriobuted to the 'stoma stigma' forum post and therefore contributed to this verse. Best wishes Bill
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Posted by: GoinWithTheFlow

Hubz had a regular checkup with the oncologist on Friday (his numbers are improving), and as they were asking how he's feeling since surgery, they became curious about how he's doing so well with his ostomy, both physically and mentally. He credited doing research online, trying different things, and especially the support from this group. They were asking because they see so many patients struggling to adjust.

We described this group as folks with every kind of ostomy, some for days while others for decades, but all willing to share what's worked for them with the caveat that every individual is different.

We described the most valuable element as feeling like you're not alone in this. That really piqued their interest, and they wrote down the link. It seems they had a few people in mind that might benefit from the community and thanked us for telling them about it.

You know, we can't remember exactly who we learned about this group from, but we're grateful for it every day! Thank you all! 🌻

banshie3by5
Dec 02, 2011 6:24 pm
Sweet!
banshie3by5
Dec 02, 2011 6:24 pm

Ps...it's spelled like John...Crohn's :)~

Bill
Dec 02, 2011 7:13 pm
Hello Banshie3by5, Thanks for pointing out the spelling error - it has now been edited. (It is a good indication that this concept was contributed by someone else!) Bill
 

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MrsO
Dec 03, 2011 12:44 am

Hi Bill, this is the first time I've commented on the verses you've posted. Sorry, I've never put anything before. Just wanted to say how much I enjoy reading your work. Often makes me stop and think or smile. Mrs. O xx

Bill
Dec 03, 2011 8:38 am
Hello MrsO, Thank you very much for your post and I'm so pleased that yo8u have enjoyed the verses. I sometimes look at how many people have viewed the blogs and wonder what they think. Feedback like yours is therefore so important, otherwise I would be writing in a vacuum with no idea as to whether anyone else might appreciate it. Best wishes Bill
Past Member
Dec 03, 2011 5:40 pm

Hi Bill, fantastic poem couldn't have been said better than a poem, well done...ambies...