Multi-tasking us

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Bill
Jan 28, 2014 11:46 am
MULTI-TASKING US.

While being host to ostomies,
and seeing most of our feaces
go in those bags that carry waste
with some spare time we may be faced.

A lot of us have other things
apart from what the stoma brings.
Like cancers, old-age and disease
and so we have to cope with these.

Taking trials and tribulations,
making all considerations,
most ostomates don’t make much fuss
but multi-task along with us.

Folks know we’re made to multi-task
so they are not afraid to ask.
Mow the lawns and cut the hedge,
I’ve even made the kids a sledge.

As we succeed with life’s demands,
sometimes accede to wife’s commands.
We will still do the household chores
even though we know it bores.

Pastimes, hobbies, things we do
like making time for the O.U. (Open University)
There’s bars and cars and motorbikes
walking, talking on long hikes.

Most people seem to understand
when I say I’m in a band
and even with my ostomy
I’ll do my campanology. (bellringing)

There are no bounds to what we do
to what we found that we all knew.
And as we multi-task we say
there’s nothing can stand in our way.

B. Withers 2014



Mrs.A
Jan 30, 2014 1:13 am

Hi Bill, what can one say but... Bravo! I like the last line the best!

Bill
Jan 30, 2014 6:36 am
Hello Mrs A. Thanks! Of course the last line is often where the verse will start. It is the guiding light at the end of the tunnel where we can emerge into the light that shines upon all the things that were shaded from us along the way.Best wishes Bill
Posted by: Primeboy

Hi Mike and all. I am not sure how panoramic my perspective really is as my peripheral vision shrinks with each passing year. I can tell you that when I came to this website six years ago I was truly ;impressed by the positive attitudes of so many members, especially the younger folks who refused to let their ostomies define who they were or what they would become. I also came to appreciate that having an ostomy is not the same thing as having a disease. Pardon ;my pun now, but ostomies and cancer don't belong in the same bag. One is a solution, the other is a problem. Celebrating National Ostomy Day ;is also well outside my comfort zone. That's like celebrating National Wheel Chair Day. Come on!

I think there is a ;need for improved ;public awareness of ostomies, but I am not sure how that's best done. There ;remains ;some social stigma attached to our situation, and it's acutely felt among our young. We need to get out of the dark ages on this issue, but not by going 'in your face' to everyone else. I think Bill and NDY are 'spot-on' when it comes to telegraphing the right message to friends and family. People will know how to react when they ;see ;how we accept the cards we were dealt. I also appreciate the contribution some people here are making to this effort through their publications.

On a personal note, my son has been suffering from ulcerative colitis for years just like I did. I am very concerned because people with UC are at a higher risk for colon cancer. Years ago my GI told me to get annual colonoscopies to be on the safe side. I am glad I did because he eventually found pre-cancerous cells which led to several surgeries and my becoming an ostomate. Since then I have always ;conveyed a positive attitude to ;my son about wearing a bag because it has kept me alive to enjoy many more years with my loved ones. I think he got the message. We both go to the same gastroenterologist in NYC and get scoped on the same day. Father and Son moments!

Someone once wrote that our children are the letters we write to the future.

PB