Reply to gentlejohn
Thanks. I would just say that in my experience it's hard to find a good stoma nurse in my area. It didn't help that the home care nurse discharged me because I hadn't been having serious issues. Now I'm dealing with bad leaks and ulcerated areas around the stoma. They can't re-enroll me without blah, blah, blah. And, if truth be told, the home care nurses that visited in the past seemed limited in their knowledge.
Thankfully, I have an appointment at the surgeon's office in a couple of days. They're almost 2 hours away, but if they can help, I don't care about the distance. I live in a relatively rural area but within driving distance of major cities where health care is more advanced. Anyway, I almost went to the ER, but my surgeon's nurse said she wanted to be honest with me
an ER was not going to address the root issues, meaning they would probably just change the appliance but wouldn't offer me alternative supplies that might work better for me or treat the skin sensitivity satisfactorily or at all. I didn't want to go anyway, but I was feeling so out of control when I couldn't get the bag to stick and the leaks were miserable and my skin really hurt and I'd be lying on my back without any bag on just trying to keep the stoma clean. What a mess!
I don't want to be negative for other readers, because, all in all, I'm very lucky and will probably get a reversal soon. I'm healthy and have a wonderful support group. Sometimes a bad day or two can derail me, but then I rally and get back on the horse.