My wife & I, & OCC.

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Bill
Mar 06, 2024 8:45 am

MY WIFE & I & OCC.

Some people call it OCD
but I can’t see how that can be,
observing and then cleaning grot
I think ‘disorder’ it is not.

I feel the terminology
to suit my wife, is OCC,
as this alternative meaning’s:-
Obsessive-Compulsive Cleaning.

To call it a ‘disorder’s wrong,
for grime and slime and pooh will pong,
and maybe there’ll be more to pay
if it’s not quickly cleaned away.

My wife may clean obsessively,
but we see this, progressively
maintaining cleanliness so we
are relatively illness free

I’m like this with my stoma’s shit
as I want to be rid of it,
so, there’s no way I’d leave it there
for that might show I did not care. 

Imagine what the mess might be 
if output from my ostomy
was not immediately clean
via a regular routine

I’ve seen this with some incidents
and some unwelcome accidents,
so, prevention, to be sure
is often better than a cure. 

Our cleaning might seem obsessive
and it may well be compulsive, 
but, surely this is rational
as well as being functional?


                                                B.Withers 2023

AlexT
Mar 06, 2024 3:42 pm

When I read the title, I thought we’d get a picture of you and you wife on an Orange County Chopper. 😁🤷‍♂️

Posted by: Immarsh

Hi Hatlady and all,

I've had my ostomy for over 50 years, since I was a kid, and didn't think I really needed to be part of the ostomy site. But once active, I came to realize, that although I may not need help at the time, I was able to reach out and  help others in need. Back in the day, before stoma therapists, I use to visit new patients in the hospital or homes ... While professionals are great, it is also good to be able to speak with people with personal experience. I was a free member for awhile, but after writing often, I was given free months. I then started paying, and decided to just take lifetime membership. After all, I was going to have my ostomy for the rest of my life. I'm one of those people who can disappear for a few months at a time, but I'm always glad that the site is here, I can return and reconnect with old friends, and make new ones. This is an excellent site ... Best regards to all ... and Best wishes for a Healthy and Happy New Year.

TerryLT
Mar 06, 2024 9:56 pm

Hi Bill, My husband thinks I'm an obsessive cleaner too, but I, of course, do not agree. I just don't like dust, dirt, and grime. Of course, what constitutes 'dirty' is entirely subjective, so I doubt we will ever agree on this. Probably the same in your case, so I guess the only thing you can do about it is write a poem about it!

Terry

infinitycastle52777
Mar 06, 2024 10:12 pm

Isn't there a saying, "Cleanliness is next to godliness," something like that?

Gracie Bella
Jan 23, 2025 4:14 am

I have become a big fan of your poetry, Bill!!

 

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