Christian..it's 330 a.m. here across the pond. It bothered me how I replied to you.
I am not like that being so mean and your reply so heartfelt means " you got my point" albeit harshly.
Bygones.
Now if I could have a word with your doctor? It would be two choice words only. But essentially he's an idiot. Is he experienced enough to tell you resume normal working or daily habits? Or has he mad cow disease?
His idea of normal is not our new normal so u may have interpreted his " return to daily actives" incorrectly.
You have a hole through yur stomach wall. What can be normal about that? It is not going to get better as you do your things.
I do get the whole idea of being busy minded and nothing can stop me attitude or just being very active as you have your youth. Lucky you.!
But it does not include break dancing. Nor lifting. People with heavy lifting jobs have retired bc of a 40 lbs lift restriction- or less. This is your new normal. Factual too.
You are a newbie. You ask first before doing things that give you pause. And will eventually hurt you. Pls remember that.
You don't want to hear about failed hernia repair. Some of us won't have ours done due to that fact it's a never ending repair. Only an experienced doctor or stoma nurse would tell you that..
Or us. You can talk to those who've had done..had it failed. Had multiple surgeries to fix it- in short, regretted it.
Re: your stoma? It normally exercises itself. Did you a story on here where the member has 3 to 6 inches prolapse stoma.
?? DAMN..throw a saddle on that sucka.
I don't think what you are experiencing is abnormal. Just the opposite. It will grow and retract. Just keep an eye on it.
Mine grows to a golf ball size. Mushrooms.
And retracts as small as a small grape. .
You out put is effected by what you eat. Your stoma is an exit.
Night time..laying down..has some adverse effects. This will ease as your dinner time changes to maybe an earlier time instead of later.
Bananas..marshmallows before bed time might help.
I used to have nocturnal empties 2 to 4 times. This 330 a.m. wake up trip is my new normal for months. Took me a few years to curb eating late.
Achieving all of this new normal takes time. Be patient. Don't over do it out of the starting gate.
Ask. We are here.
You got this..with our help. We get it.
Keep us posted. Thanks for being a nice guy . Thought you were gonna bite me head off. 🙋♂️