One Man Show

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johnbaxter1952
Jun 16, 2024 7:07 am

When I was facing surgery, I was truly inspired by many of the stories that I read about how people faced their new life and coped with it. I wanted to do something to raise awareness of what it meant to be an ostomate. I was a drama teacher for forty years and have also been involved in local community theatre projects, so I decided that my way of communicating must be through theatre. To this end, I wrote a one-man show; similar in style to the Alan Bennett 'Talking Heads' series (many people in the UK will remember these).

A recording of it was made, and you can see/hear it here https://youtu.be/Ww-PBUuLNfQ?si=Yfs9YqbGSrtD9IZd.

I have performed it live once as part of a Salisbury Fringe event. I am now looking for other appropriate venues to perform.

Please have a listen, and if you are part of a church, social, community group within a reasonable traveling distance from Andover, Hampshire, UK, and you'd like me to come and perform the play for you, please get in touch.

The reading lasts 23 minutes, but the live performance is more like 35 minutes. Then I am willing to do a Q&A about both the play and my circumstances.

Bill
Jun 16, 2024 1:52 pm

Well done John.
I felt that that was half an hour well spent.
Thank you for sharing
Best wishes

Bill

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When I found this web site, I didn't think its name had anything to do with actually meeting an ostomate but I later learned there were some folks who did meet and develop relationships. How good is that? That wasn't my intention. I definitely didn't want anyone to meet me. I felt broken and wasn't prepared to express those feelings. I thought it was a place where ostomates wrote about themselves, posed questions, shared thoughts, told jokes and, sometimes, just vented. I thought of it as a community of folks with similar interests and various degrees of experience. Mostly I found some of the most caring, selfless, wise and understanding people I ever imagined. I was so impressed with some of the writings; not because of their literary value but the way in which they addressed such a very complex environment. I read hundreds of exchanges and admired the way folks cared for each other. I became hopeful with my own situation and looked forward to the next day's offerings. Certainly some contributors stood out with their experience or particular skills in addressing some things but it seemed like a total effort with synergistic results. I felt blessed to have found this site. I still do.
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johnbaxter1952
Jun 17, 2024 2:58 pm

Thank you for your kind words. Best wishes.

Bill
Jun 17, 2024 6:11 pm
Very helpful

Hello John.
You're welcome!

I did have a chat to my wife about whether she would like you to perform for the stroke group that she runs, but she felt that it would not be an appropriate subject for them. Besides which, it would probably be too far to come.
Anyway, I thought it was worth a try, even if the approach was unsuccessful.

One thought that I had was that, when I was working in the local Day Centres, they were often getting people in to talk or perform in one way or another and I am sure that if you approached you local Day Centres, there might be an opportunity to do your stuff there. Also, I use to give talks (about my research) to the local WI, Rotary, Round Table, and many other local groups, whose social secretaries always seem to be on the lookout for people willing to 'perform'. I even gave a talk to a local 'Mother of Twins support group', which was quite an interesting experience.

Best wishes

Bill
   

aTraveler
Jun 18, 2024 5:18 pm

Excellent presentation. Great elucidation of a life-changing event. Shows how you can have great plans, but then "life happens." You have done well with this video.

"It all comes to this: The simplest way to be happy is to do good." -- Helen Keller

 

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