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You totally make sense; using what makes you comfortable is like 90% of the battle. You just go ahead and do what you're doing. I'm short-waisted too. I was so lucky that I was able to consult with a stoma nurse before my surgery, and she helped me figure out the best spot for stoma placement. Not everyone gets that option, so I recognize how fortunate I was. We settled on a high placement so the bag wouldn't hang too low. Also, I have a bunch of big, wide stretch marks on my lower belly, and so the skin was in better shape up high. My surgeon thought I wouldn't be happy with it, but I really am. The only thing that gives me a scare is the steering wheel in my Tacoma; it's perfectly in line with my stoma, and since I'm short, I have to sit close to the steering wheel so I can reach the pedals and see! So, I use a stuffed animal and tuck it inside the seatbelt right between the steering wheel and my stoma.
I've been really fortunate with not too much leaking. I have an excellent stoma nurse, and she knows so many good tricks. I'm the opposite of youβthe two-piece systems are leaky on me, while the one-piece light convex goes 3-4 days with zero leaks. I haven't tried to go any longer than that; I just do two changes a week and rock on! I am gassy at night; I have to set a 2:15 and 4:30 alarm, and each time my bag is a full balloon, so I tiptoe to the bathroom. I had one blowout while I was walking in the middle of the night, so now I'm way more cautious because that was a freaking mess! Haha. I tried changing my eating/drinking habits, but nothing stopped the middle-of-the-night gas, so now I just set the alarms and move on with life.
I have been just wearing my pouch with the little belt. I don't even bother trying to tuck it in, but I've been getting ready to put the hernia prevention belt into use because I am freaked out and paranoid about getting a hernia. It's just been a long, hot summer, and I'm also at peak menopause, so I am having my share of hot flashes throughout each day, and the thought of having that hernia belt on is justβugh! But my surgeon told me that with the condition my abdomen is inβas in, not goodβthe belt is probably necessary until I can work myself up to better health, so I'll be doing that this coming weekend. You have to measure and carefully cut the hole in there for the pouch to come through, and it's a process.