Hello everyone! I just joined this group and am happy to be here. My ostomy journey started in March of 2022 when dx with stage 3 rectal cancer. I had an ileostomy at that time which was very challenging for the first several months! Convex wafers were the game changer for me! After 1 1/2 years of trying to have a reversal several times, I was able to have it done in Aug. of 2023. I then had an issue with LARS which was no picnic but I was doing my best until July of 2024 when I developed a rectovaginal fistula. Yup! It’s as bad as it sounds! Another surgery for permanent colostomy in August of 2024. When I had my ileostomy, I never took a tub bath which I love. Do you all take baths? How long can you stay in the water? Does your wafer lift on the edges? How warm can the water be? We also have a pool and want to start enjoying that again next summer! Any ideas and input appreciated!! Sorry for the long entry! It’s been a long 2 1/2 yrs!!! 😩
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As a student, there are easy ways you can prepare ahead and manage an ostomy while you are at school.
Read answers to frequently asked questions about how to change your pouch and participate in activities.
Read answers to frequently asked questions about how to change your pouch and participate in activities.
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Before making the trip from your hospital bed to your home, it's important to review some essential care tips and precautions with your stoma care nurse.
Follow our 9-point hospital discharge checklist.
Follow our 9-point hospital discharge checklist.