I was just thinking, now that the Thanksgiving holiday is upon us again, about some of the things that I, and all of us, have to be thankful for. The fact that we are here to communicate with each other is a blessing unto itself. Many of us would not even be here if it were not for the knowledge and ability of our medical caregivers. Although we sometimes have something to complain about in the manner of treatment we received, we are still here. Our lifestyles have been altered, but we are still here. Our loved ones still love and care for us, and we are still here. While the calendar has not been too kind to some of us, we are still here. Even if some of us cannot enjoy that wonderful traditional great meal, with all the trimmings, we are still here.
And, you know what? The alternative is definitely not acceptable. So this Thanksgiving, when someone offers you that tasty treat that, due to your ostomy condition, you cannot accept, don't be bitter or complain about it, after all... We are still here!!
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This site has been a blessing for me in learning how to cope with and navigate this journey as an ostomate. I have a colostomy as a result of a perforation in my colon since May of this year. I don't know yet if it will be permanent or reversible. The people on here have provided me with so much advice and information about living with an ostomy that I don't think I could get anywhere else. You all have given me hope and a place to come to for support. I still struggle with acceptance, but know that it will come if I am patient. Patience has never been my strong suit! Also, I love all the humor, although it really pissed me off when I first came on here. Thanks to all of you.

