I have had an ileostomy for 4 years and a urostomy for 1 year. I admit it's a challenge but it's doable. I use a 1-piece Hollister for the urostomy and a 2-piece Hollister for the ileostomy. I am lucky with my stoma placements as these 2 products just fit perfectly. It's most challenging when I am changing the pouches, it's a real race. Sleeping is a challenge as well as I have the night bag along with everything else.
Keep your spirit up, remember that it could always be worse. I don't allow my ostomy(s) to run my life. Life is far too precious for that.