I haven't been on for months... I posted a while back as bf of an ostomate needing some advice and support to help her get some of her confidence back. I'm still madly deeply in love with this wonderful beautiful, funny girl. Her ostomy has never and will never be a negative thing for me, if anything, I am eternally greatful as it has made her quality of life so much better and possibly even saved her life.
I can in no way speak for all guys out there, because yes, there are jerks out there...
but there are guys out there who want to share their life with someone regardless of the presence of a bag. I can't begin to imagine how difficult and scary it can be to start dating again, but I really hope you are able to get enough confidence back so you can start meeting guys and at some point you will find the right guy, who accepts you for you.
PS. You look stunning, and I am sure a lot of guys would love to get a chance to get to know you