Hi, my name is Dee and I am extremly grateful for this site. I am 85 years old and have had my colostomy bag for almost 6 years. Just recently I have a hernia which is adjoining my stoma. I have already got a belt which is uncomfortable. I am wondering if there is any kind of microscopic surgry to get rid of the hernia. I am super afraid of getting a reversal and undergoing surgery. I am extremely terrified of having anesthesia. I was very very sick after my operation. Can anyone help me.....Thank you!!!!
BHeather
Jan 11, 2017 4:45 pm
Past Member
Mar 04, 2017 1:31 am
check with an ostomy nurse. I have skin problems and belts are uncomfortable. I have had my ostomy for 25 yrs. I now wear 2 pairs of underwear. The bottom pair has an extra hole in it. It acts like a belt. I fold the hole back and sew seam binding lace on to it to strengthen it. It works for me!
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MeetAnOstoMate website turned out to be a lifesaver for me. I say this because, for me, this ostomy journey was a devastating event both physically and mentally.
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