I took Social Security at 63 because I would have such bad intestinal pains that it would keep me from doing my job well and cause me to call in or leave work early. I've been to the emergency room a few times, and the results were another operation which all the different doctors frowned upon, watch what I eat, drink a lot of water, and take it easy. So I decided that I would just work part-time after I turned 63. I wanted to work a few more years to get more SS benefits. The pains I would get started around 2012 and became more long-lasting, sometimes about 12 hours or so. The pains would linger slightly for a few more days. So in 2016, I went on SS and only worked about 10 to 15 hours a week. I stopped going to doctors after my last colonoscopy in 2015 because, as always, everything looked good, except for the bills I would receive which I am still paying. So I applied for SS disability in October of 2016 because since I stopped working, I was feeling much better. I still get the pains but not near as much as I used to when I worked, and they don't last for more than a few hours when they do come. SS denied me stating I could still do my work and my colostomy should have nothing to do with it. That is true, but it's the aftereffect of losing body parts due to my colostomy that I feel has caused me these pains and made it hard and stressful to work. I am in the automotive industry, so lifting and moving heavy parts and getting in awkward positions is a daily thing, but according to SS, I can do that! So my question is, has anyone had this same situation? I haven't seen a doctor since 2015 about my pains, and SS wants medical proof which all I can give them is past history. So I have a review before some kind of SS disability judge to make a decision. All I have right now is my word and a bunch of unpaid doctor bills I have accumulated from all of this. Any suggestions would be great. Thanks, Bob.
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