This topic is all about welcoming new ostomates and reassuring them that life with an ostomy really does get easier over time. The original poster shares their personal journey, which began with a challenging start involving leaks, skin issues, and emotional struggles. After some ups and downs, including a reversal and reinstatement of their ostomies, they now live a full life and hardly think about their ostomies. Here are some helpful insights and advice shared by others:

1. Maintaining a positive mindset is key. Believing that things will improve can make the adjustment process smoother.

2. Returning to normal routines is possible. One person went back to work just three months after their colostomy and has had no ongoing issues.

3. With time, taking care of your ostomy becomes second nature. Many people decide not to have reversal surgery unless it's medically necessary. Having a good relationship with your surgeon is important when considering options like reversal or hernia repair.

4. It's common for family and friends to avoid talking about the ostomy. Accepting this and focusing on your own adaptation can help reduce stress.

5. Ultimately, living with an ostomy is much better than the alternative, and most people find they can lead an active and fulfilling life.