This topic is about someone who recently underwent laparoscopic surgery to address a kink in the colon caused by hernia mesh and also had a hysterectomy due to Lynch Syndrome, which increases the risk of certain cancers. The person is recovering at home, feeling physically sore and emotionally down, especially because their ex-partner is not bringing their children to visit.

Here are some pieces of advice and helpful insights shared by others:

1. Emotional support: It's important to have family or friends help arrange visits with the children. If the ex-partner is not cooperating, perhaps a trusted friend or relative could assist with transportation.

2. Coping with feelings of loneliness: Staying connected with loved ones, especially the children, can be a practical way to combat feelings of loneliness and low mood after surgery.