This topic is about someone who recently had their first surgery, a colostomy, and is navigating the recovery process. They are looking for support and advice from others who have been through similar experiences. Here are some helpful insights shared by others:

1. Accept help and avoid over-exertion. Many people advise against doing too much too soon, as it can lead to complications like adhesions. It's important to rest often and let family and friends help with chores.

2. Prioritize self-care. Make sure to take naps, treat yourself kindly, and pace your activities to save energy during the early stages of healing.

3. Early stoma problems improve. It's common to experience initial leaks or "disasters," but with time, managing the appliances and skills will become easier.

4. Use the community. When feeling down, connect with fellow ostomates. The forum is a great place to share experiences, get practical tips, and find emotional support.