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Aug 02, 2017

A Tough Day: Considering Pulling Out of University for Surgery

This topic revolves around a student who is facing a tough decision about whether to continue with university studies after experiencing a medical complication. The student had previously undergone emergency surgery for ulcerative colitis, resulting in an ileostomy. Now, a new issue has arisen with a "closed" mucous fistula unexpectedly opening, creating additional challenges.

Here are some pieces of advice and insights shared by others:

1. Prioritize health over financial concerns. Many suggest considering withdrawal from university to focus on well-being, even if it means losing some money.

2. Seek support from the university:
- Meet with disability or academic advisers as soon as possible.
- Look into options for a reduced course load or online classes with flexible deadlines to better accommodate medical needs.

3. Get more medical advice:
- Ask for a detailed explanation of the fistula technique and why it might have failed.
- Consider getting a second opinion from another surgeon if there are any doubts about the current treatment plan.

4. Manage the wound and appliances effectively. Use miniature stoma bags lined with gauze to handle the draining fistula, and be prepared for twice-daily changes.

5. Control inflammation:
- Incorporate turmeric into your daily routine, whether through tea, lattes, or high-quality supplements, as it may help reduce inflammation and bloody discharge.
- Be cautious with turmeric if you are on blood thinners like warfarin or have a history of clotting issues.

6. Maintain an emotional perspective. It's important to acknowledge the frustration and setbacks as part of the recovery process. Remember past successes in adapting to an ileostomy as encouragement that you can manage this new routine as well.
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