This topic is about the emotional preparation needed before undergoing elective ostomy surgery, particularly focusing on letting go of anger. The discussion is sparked by someone who is preparing for a second surgery related to a clinical trial for a new type of stoma device. Here are some key points and advice shared in the conversation:

- The person sharing their experience was the first in the UK to receive the TIES device, which is an experimental stoma device.
- It was later found that the TIES device is not suitable for patients with Crohn’s disease, leading to a statement from the company acknowledging this issue.
- Despite not being in favor of a litigious approach, the person had to seek legal help to get corrective treatment after facing problems with the device. They believe the TIES device is a promising idea but still needs improvement.
- For anyone facing surgery, they suggest:
1. Get well-informed and insist on clear, factual information.
2. Avoid making assumptions or having unrealistic expectations.
3. Replace anger with practical and positive planning to aid recovery.
4. Don’t let negative thoughts occupy your mind; focus on moving forward positively.

Additional insights from others include:

- One person agrees with the message and praises its importance.
- Another person offers a different perspective, suggesting that sometimes showing anger can be effective in conveying the seriousness of a situation, as long as one is willing to apologize later, emphasizing that staying calm is ultimately beneficial.
- Using humor, such as quoting a funny movie line, can help ease tension and provide relief during the stressful process of planning for surgery.