This topic is about someone considering a colostomy reversal after recovering from diverticulitis. The person shares their journey and seeks advice on how to approach the decision.

- The person reflects on their father's recent hospitalizations, which reminded them of the strength needed to live with a colostomy.
- They have been working through grief from their mother's passing and the changes brought by having a stoma, which has been crucial for their acceptance and healing.
- Currently, they feel healthy, free of pain, and can eat whatever they like, although they note some issues with odors. They are also planning to return to the gym.
- An appointment with their surgeon is scheduled for late February to discuss the possibility of a reversal. They feel optimistic but remain cautious and thankful for the support from their community.

Additional details include:

- The colostomy was necessary due to a severe diverticulitis flare-up that led to perforation and infection, resulting in the removal of the diseased lower section.
- They plan to get a second opinion from a gastrointestinal specialist since their original surgeon is a general surgeon.
- Their main concerns before deciding on a reversal include age-related healing, the overall definition of "success," and long-term quality of life.

Some advice and insights for those in a similar situation:

1. Prepare questions for the surgical consultation, such as the success rate, the surgeon’s definition of "success," expected function after healing, and how the original disease might affect the outcome.
2. Read various forum accounts to understand the range of experiences after a reversal, both positive and negative.
3. Remember that "success" involves two aspects:
- The immediate surgical outcome, which includes avoiding leaks, infections, or other complications.
- Long-term quality of life, which considers the frequency and urgency of bowel movements, time spent on the toilet, and diet tolerance.
4. Having a large portion of the remaining colon and being younger generally improve the chances for a smoother reversal and recovery.
5. If possible, a laparoscopic reversal might reduce recovery time and complications.
6. Take your time, gather second or even third opinions, and clearly define what risks and benefits are personally acceptable before making a decision.