Topic Explanation:
The discussion revolves around seeking clothing advice for ostomates who miss the ability to tuck in their shirts due to the presence of an ostomy appliance. The original poster, who has an ileostomy, expresses discomfort with the bulkiness of stoma guards and seeks alternative solutions that would allow for a more traditional and less noticeable way to wear shirts tucked in.
Extracted Advice and Helpful Insights:
1. Stoma Placement and Clothing Adaptation:
- If the stoma is placed around the belt line, tucking in shirts tightly may not be feasible. Lower profile stoma guards might help but could still be noticeable under tightly tucked shirts.
- Some ostomates have given up on tucking in shirts entirely, opting instead for styles that naturally sit untucked or using accessories like vests to cover the area.
2. Alternative Clothing Solutions:
- Using a tummy sleeve from a maternity shop combined with suspenders can help keep the shirt tucked in without applying pressure directly to the stoma area.
- Customizing shirts by cutting them to accommodate the stoma appliance or wearing a two-piece system that allows the bag to be rotated or positioned more discreetly.
- Wearing a loose vest over a tucked-in shirt can help conceal the appliance while maintaining a more traditional appearance.
3. Creative Adjustments and Personal Acceptance:
- Some users have created or adapted devices that hold the bag away from the stoma, allowing them to tuck in their shirts and make the appliance less noticeable.
- Embracing a "function over fashion" attitude, where the comfort and practicality of ostomy care take precedence over traditional fashion norms.
- Experimenting with different types of clothing that may not typically be considered, such as modifying tank tops or using maternity wear for better fit and comfort.
4. Community Suggestions and Experiences:
- Several community members suggest using two-piece ostomy systems that offer more flexibility in how the appliance can be worn, potentially making it easier to tuck in shirts.
- Others have shared that they have adjusted their expectations and habits over time, finding new ways to dress that accommodate their ostomy while still feeling presentable and confident.
5. Specific Product Recommendations:
- Mention of specific products like the StealthBelt, Nu-Hope belt, and various types of hernia belts that might offer a solution depending on the individual's specific stoma placement
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